You're a Good Loser

As a kid, i was expected to be top of the glass. If i came back with 19 out of 20 in a test, iu'd be like, why didn't you get 20 out o 20? I think where it has come from, maybe it's part of the immigrant mentality. In their heads, they've face so much discrimination, so many problems,. that their way of having their children not face the same stuff is to excel. So they would always say, you have to be better than everyone else. And i don't feel as though i will be loved less i get those top grades. But i internalized it as if i don't succeed, if

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