How Can I Let Him Have the Grace Just for Making a Mistake?

We're al also human, and we all alsov make the mistakes, inc so other people can make mistakes and sometimes let us down. And you know, i totally relate. Because it can be easy to come down on people and to take personal offence when mistakes are made. It's all those stories that we craft around an incident that we actually don't really know what was going on,. So in this situation, like i was away for many days, i don't know what was happening in the house. Maybe there were things that were bigger than feeding the fish that took place - even than just lapses in the childhood brain. maybe somebody got hurt. Instead of asking what happened like