"If you don't recognize the hardshipst you have as an opportunity to build skills by overcoming them and letting them go, you're never going to develop the skills that you need," he says. "The real bosses live in a place where they overcome shit, where they take the hardships that have happened to them and they develop skill sets that move them forward" 'You can live your wholei telling the same sad story over and over and over again,' he adds. "'And then when you get to fruck and die hopefully you don't have to think about it' - i betou you'll let it go really fucking fast."