Coaches - Show Up Messy or Not?

Some coaching spaces where I've been and where I still am, there can be sometimes a little bit of like, I want you to coach yourself. So they're like, okay, let me really get in there and self coach myself. And then they show up, they've already done all this coaching. Sometimes it has created awareness, but it's created it in a way that they have almost used the coaching against themselves. Like I don't ever want a client to be scared to get coaching because they think they're not yet clear enough or they need to self coach first.