Is There a Partner Ever Feeling Guilty if I Don't Come?

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It's basically unlearning the stuff that we've been, it's been drilled into us since we were talking about sex and entitlement to pleasure. You do not want to feel guilty about that. No, absolutely not. Also, having a chat with him might be, it might just be a simple thing of like, oh, I'm really, really hot. And then you could try it and it would be a game changer. Who knows? You never know.

In this episode, Hannah is joined by Becky Lund-Harket, who is the Head of Public Engagement and a workshop facilitator at the School of Sexuality Education as well as the founder of the Candid Collective. Becky discusses why people feel dissatisfaction in sexual and romantic relationships (spoiler: it's because of poor communication!) and gets into why we find communication so difficult, as well as talking about some good and bad examples from TV. Becky and Hannah talk about the orgasm gap, how sex ed can help to close that gap, and why orgasms shouldn't be the main focus of pleasure. Finally, Hannah and Becky discuss the double standards involved with nudes and sexting.

✨MORE ABOUT BECKY LUND-HARKET✨
Becky Lund-Harket (she/her) is the Head of Public Engagement and a Workshop Facilitator at School of Sexuality Education. School of Sexuality Education deliver workshops for young people on topics ranging from porn, consent and healthy relationships to periods and genital anatomy. Their approach is intersectional, feminist, non-binary and sex positive. They support young people and those working with them to ensure everyone has access to a complete, inclusive and comprehensive sex and relationships education.

Becky is also the Founder of The Candid Collective. Candid host fun and informative workshops for adults across London and online. Their discursive and research-led events focus on sex, bodies and relationships with the aim of starting open conversations.

Becky strongly believes that the quality of the relationships we have, including with ourselves, determine the quality of our lives.

- School of Sexuality Education: https://schoolofsexed.org/
- The Candid Collective Website: https://www.thecandidcollective.com/

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