Use your money in a way that enhances and facilitates your relationships, your health and your sense of purpose. Giving is an example of enjoying money. We can also use our money to empower other people. I really like the idea of ike loaning money to people on kiva. For example, my wife and i have helped to found a foundation in camboti,. where we give in that capacity. It makes us feel awesome, like it helps somebody else, but it makes us feel great. And when we do feel good about ourselves, that not only affects us, but our relationships and our longevity on a cellular level.