i think asking your individual friends how they receive and perceive you're leaning on them for support, like whether it's too much or too little. And then just watch out for your reassurance resistance. Just want to do this for me is like, for me, i love my friends get together. We play ugio once a week. I love that bult. Honestly, my favorite parts are the half hour as we're building up and we just catch up with each other.