The Importance of Having an Intention in Dating

Abraham Maslow said that our fear of rejection is often a kind of success. He says it's an evasion of one's own growth, setting low levels of aspiration. And he talks about these as being fears of like, if we're too big, we will feel like we're being grandiose. If I let myself be this fuller, richer me, what am I afraid of? Yes, I might be afraid that I'll be rejected. But let's say, let's just say I won't be rejected. And more people are going to be interested in me."