The Problem With a Narcissist Relationship

We have to ask ourselves, am I helping someone feel good around me by the way that I make them feel? Do I give them credit for what they're good at? Do I show them that they have a positive effect on me and thereby they get the sense of enjoyment at knowing they can make me smile. And being brave and courageous in love is being willing to give it first sometimes, not all at once necessarily, but being willing to giving some of that first and to see if it's reciprocated. Having standards is not staying anywhere where it's not reciprocated.