The Three Minute Game

This is a fantastic way to ask for and give the touch that you want. You can expand this out to anything. Words of praise, words of affirmation, snuggling, cuddling, play wrestling for three minutes. Gently violent sex for 3 minutes. Go to town, whatever it is that you both agree on. There's so many good things wrapped into this game. It takes a huge amount of pressure off a dominant partner. Submissives have no idea how stressful being expected to be a mind can be. So this teaches you to slow down. It teaches boundaries. It teaches an extremely strong awareness of consent,. I hope all this is making sense.