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145: Why People Disappear When You Show Interest

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

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Are You So Attracted to Someone?

Being so attracted doesn't have to mean having no boundaries. You can still say that you're willing to see them every night of the week. It doesn't mean they're going to get more of your attention unless they start showing you more of their attention. And even if you say, yebu, i'm so attracted to this person, but how attracted you are and what boundaries you have are very different things. That's powerful someone knowing that you think they're incredibly sexy and attractive - it has no effect on your behaviour.

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