How to Dismantle Bullshits

I'm always trying to dismantle things about guys so that they don't feel like they have to be this tough bullshit fight club person. I still remember when I did do a meet and greet once where this guy was in the line and he goes, fuck you. Maybe they have Tourette's in your own bully. A lot of guys listen to this to go like, oh, I just learned about women or I just, or like they're not sexist and they fucking like the show. They just like you.