What Kind of Things Would He Tell You About His Childhood?

He went to italy for christmas, and then on new year's day he rang you to tell you that his father had died. When he came back from then things really, really changed. He wasn't the same person who'd gone to italy. His eyes looked different, something there that wasn't the warmth had gone. And he became quite disdant physically. After the funeral, his sister had disclos that she was sexually abused by their father from the age of elevent. It made sense to me that this family was so fractured. But he really started to kind of move away from me in every sense. I think because i was full of thy as well,