The Most Urgent Deadline in the Moment

What's most urgent in the moment is rarely what's most important. The things that have actual due date, d dates, dead lines tend not to be the things that are going to move your life forward in a big way. So you need to reshift your whole approach to your schedule so that there are some things you have to deliver for other people but it must be balanced with commitments you are making to yourself. You can't do all one or the other. You have to do both.