Doing Things From a Place of Desire Instead of Obligation

When you do it from a place of fear, you always end up busting up your boundaries. Take some inat you're doing and then ask yourself, what is it that i want to do with this? AndWhat is it that I feel obliged to do? If there's no difference between the two great. But if there is a difference, that's where a problem besides that is where tension, friction and resentment reside. That difference is where you are not being congruent with your needs, expectations, desires, feelings and opinions.