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Do You Worry You’re Undateable? with Relationship Scientist Logan Ury

Girls Gotta Eat

CHAPTER

Am I Undatable?

Ellen Hewitt wrote an article about a sex cult and is writing a book on it. The meditation practice was orgasmic meditation, she says. "I believe you would be more exciting for me if you guys start having sex with each other"

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Speaker 1
I believe
Speaker 2
you would be more exciting for me if you guys start having sex
Speaker 1
with each other. I know a person is moving in actually this weekend who wrote a really great article about a sex cult and is writing a book on it. I don't know if you saw this movie on Netflix about like this female orgasm cult. What? It was called One Taste. Anyway, you should check her out. Her name is Ellen Hewitt. But your ally. A cult? How is there all the organs you don't know about? Yeah, basically the meditation practice was orgasmic meditation and it was basically like stimulating the clip. I think you need to move to San Francisco. Yeah. We're done moving for quite some time. Okay. This was not why we brought you to the day. But thank you so much. I'm very happy to talk to you. I'm really glad we asked. Yeah. Okay. And you can submit your application to me. To radish.
Speaker 2
Yeah. So basically we were not sure we're going to talk to you about today. You and I were on the phone. You pitched Ashley and I a topic and we both were just like, yes, perfect. Love it. Great. And you had sent out a newsletter. Got a lot of positive feedback. And basically the title was, am I undatable? So let's talk about like how you came to start writing about this and the theory because you, I mean, you could just take it away. I mean,
Speaker 1
this was. Yeah. Let me tell you the origin. So, you know, I teach a stating class and somebody asks this question where she was like, one of the reasons why I'm a hesitator and why I haven't been dating is because I have a really bad relationship with my family. And she didn't get into all the details, but she was like, it inevitably comes up that people want to talk about your family and your family traditions. And she's like, I just don't know what to say. So I don't go on dates. And so live we workshop what she could say. And we talked about how she could really own her story, own the narrative and talk about it from a place of growth. And I happen to know her. So I really know that she embodies this. And so we talked about how she could say on a date, you know, I'm not close to my family, but because of that, I've worked super hard to develop relationships with my chosen family. I have an amazing group of friends and I'm really excited to build a family with somebody one day.

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