"I'm much better able to hold that level of presence and compassion and receptivity when I have a heads up," she says. "There's the difference between a fire hose, which is often what happens in fights ... where there's a stream of energy going at your partner versus opening and revealing outwards." She gives tips on how women can get their man to be present without getting bludgeoned by him.

Get the Snipd
podcast app

Unlock the knowledge in podcasts with the podcast player of the future.
App store bannerPlay store banner

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode

Save any
moment

Hear something you like? Tap your headphones to save it with AI-generated key takeaways

Share
& Export

Send highlights to Twitter, WhatsApp or export them to Notion, Readwise & more

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode