How to Find Your Victim Story

"I'm not the Dalai Lama of accountability or whatever. I got as many victim stories as the next person maybe," she says. "That's why I got to talk shit, you know, and hold myself accountable." She has a fiancée that holds herself accountable too. For people who are very low in their self-esteem, it can be helpful for them to have this drill sergeant narrative going on when they're having an emotional day.