I think at first I felt tremendously guilty for finding it out. It actually took a close friend of mine after months of just feeling terribly guilty to say do you understand that this isn't any way bad? My mom had absolutely no support at home we didn't have help in anything so she's sort of running around vacuuming and cleaning and dusting and trying to get meals on the table and doing all the grocery shopping because my dad also didn't drive. She's waiting hand on foot on kids and a husband and I just think any joy that that woman got in her life I feel no judgment forSo she went away and did a play for a couple of months of Montreal and got