I Don't Keep Up With People

i'm terrified to keep up with people, because i'm constantly fearing the first conversation where i learn that they've had a disabling accident. I don't keep up with my ex wife how i should. Maybe, maybe hope i could be forgiven for finding tat a little thornyli i i love that person. Why do i not do that? O, couse, here's the rule of thumb i'm suggesting. Well, it's so stupid, but like chicken bockbok, i you m if try and void saying things to people that that you can really imagine would be hurtful.