When does love absolve people of responsibility and accountability? Cause, you want to be a good partner, right? You don't want to abandon some one when they're depressed. But in trying to achieve that goal, what you can actually do is, like, make things worse. In order to fix this relationship, it takes two. And so at some point there needs to be some kind of accountability. Scalan: Is this ag situation for couples counselling, or would you recommend individual therapy instead? Ecauseif if this really is a bipolar disorder, o major depresse disorder, or things like that, that's definitely warranted. Couples counselling on top, i doubt will hurt