How to Tell a Guy You're in Love

The idea that you wouldn't want to tell somebody like a deep important serious part of yourself on the first couple of dates makes total sense. But what's fascinating to me is like they say even when a couple months has gone by. Even then tell him in like a breezy way. Never show emotional vulnerability. That's a woman who doesn't get married. They say eventually you will become more of yourself. Oh my god. You're waiting months.