How do you know that this person is worth continuing having a conversation with? If they spent most of it talking about themselves, I'm probably not interested in carrying on talking with them. Someone who shows some sort of interest in what I'm up to and why I'm doing it because that person has social intelligence and EQ are really important. It's almost like the skills in today's job market - there's obviously a lot of highly skilled engineers and analytical people. But those people who then get ahead in their career are the ones that have exceptional social skills,. And understand people and how people tick and all that kind of thing.
Today Josh speaks with Mark Cann about how to open up with others, be vulnerable, make friends, and grow your network authentically.
Today we dive into:
- The differences and the best approach for both introverts and extroverts.
- Learning how to tell your story in an authentic way that resonates.
- How to be a good listener and ask good questions to get to truly know somebody quickly.
- Addressing the myth that people "don't want to have authentic conversations."
- Overcoming scarcity bias and reframing rejection.
- How to approach strangers and make friends while traveling.
- Approaching sales as genuinely helping people — not selling or pitching.
- How to authentically connect with people at networking events.
- Networking during a global pandemic.
- How online networking apps like Lunchclub are a fantastic low-risk way to start meeting new people and growing your network.
- The future of co-working in a post-pandemic world.
- And much more.
Mark Cann is an entrepreneur, growth marketer, speaker, and outreach specialist. For the past 16 years, he has been a consultant, strategist and successfully led business development teams, including working with the team at Vungle which exited in 2019 for $750m. Mark currently is the Founder of Growth Warriors where he helps B2B companies grow through outreach and lead generation.
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