You Can't Wear Slutty Clothes, Right?

"i think why i'm so pointed, instead of anger, angry, is that because i can see the wound that this mfend is carrying around me his own experience of the world," she says. "What is the story that he's telling himself about his own worth if he has to say, like, you can't wear slutty clothes because i'm afraid other men are going to take you away from me?" She adds: "I just think it's like a false, a shallow sense of security."