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25. John Gray: Beyond Mars and Venus (Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World)

The Reader's Journey

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Are You Getting So Upset About It?

Men will tend to do is like ping pong, we complain back. We want to talk women out of what they feel - but that doesn't work. All negativity is irrational, particularly with somebody who loves you. It took me a long time to master this. I'm like, cung fo gay. You can throw arrows at me and i'll just dodge em and deflect them,. But that takes practice, an not taking it personally. Seeming to take things personally, you're being vulnerable. So  you have to be not vulnerable. Anything she says is not about you. It's like you're here for her. And so genly, you're making some decision

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