"I think just why can't folks decide what feels like a holiday to them since it actually is their holiday? I know. So this is crazy," she says. "It's hard because people just feel like this is the way it's always been done or everyone holds so tightly to like this vision of what they think it should be." After getting divorced, LZ went to Costa Rica with a friend and also pack like six pairs of high heels but did not read the itinerary. She remembers watching the sky above her on the Oso Peninsula when the new year bring in as paper lanterns going up.

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