I've Been Through a Parenting Crisis, I'm a Dad and I'd Like to Be a Dad to a Baby, I Just, You Know, I Had a Baby and I Was Going to Have to Go Through It.

I can see from the perspective of someone like Justin because he's kind of speaking as a dad, he also mentions the fact that financial pressures increased a lot and that that was a really big burden on his, on his mind. And so that's, I feel like that's kind of reflects my experience as well. You have to just again it's a mindset thing so you have to decide well what is what do you want to be rich in. When I got pregnant with my last baby I gave up a very healthy salary with so unbelievable corporate perks. It wasn't six figures, I gave it up because I just could not bear to,. I would not leave my baby there was just