Is That the Thing?

It's a line of really healthy attachment in your story and in this parent story is that struggle. She wants connection because she thinks something's lost. Sensing, yeah. She'll be sensing a bit of dysregulation in the environment and in you. And what she's learned, of you being a good parent, is that connection often helps with that. So I've got to stop one second and they do that. It seems to be they nail it when you're shitty or you're tired or angry so they're picking up. Is that the thing? Oh, is this the thing? It perpetuates itself.