How to Change Your Partner's Mind

We are conscious brain processes information at a rate of 50 bits per second. So that's what my partner, your partner's feeling or hearing right the invisible. Exhires underneath people here don't hear what you say. They hear what you mean. And so I start doing this thing I'm acting fabulously right. But there's a wobble. There's a there's a discrepancy in my, in, because I have these unconscious really subconscious thoughts all about how this isn't not going to work even some conscious ones about it. You can't shift your partners how they think you that's not how it works. Trust me I've tried. Like that is not like the losing