I Received So Much Good Criticism as a Child

I received so much good criticism as a child. And i'm grateful for every little piece of criticism I received during that time, because it shaped me as a person. So what's the point of you giving criticism in a judgmental way? If you're just putting my walls up and not letting myself receive this type of criticism then i'm saying don't give it to me at all. But anyway, that was super off topic. Going back to what bad criticism is. It's meant to hurt somebody's feelings, and not be helpful. Number two, it's for the giver of the criticism's personal gain. Next, it's given about something inconsequential, like someone