Ep. 173 - Reframing Rejection & Finding Self-Worth - The Process with Shani
EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™
The Biggest Change From 2019 Calling This In
"I had to learn what rejection really is and I am a cancer son," Shaney says. "It took God how many rejections did I get over the course of like three years, probably around between 30 and 40 rejections from publishers" The idea of not being an author and writing a book and publishing a book was comical to him because he knew it was mine.
Where are you settling for the bare minimum? If you’re manifesting a home or publishing a book, struggling with being single/dating, working on healing childhood trauma, or simply just beginning this process, this episode will be so expansive for you.
Pathway member Shani Silver covers all of this and more with Jessica. They also talk about her entire manifestation process, how she personalized the work, learned that rejection is protection, and how this process ultimately led to her self-published book & dream home in New Orleans. Shani shares tons of tips for anyone new to the work too.
Happy Manifesting!
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In This Episode We Talk About:
- Pathway member Shani’s remarkable manifestations, including her dream house in New Orleans, publishing her own book and reframing singlehood!
- Shani’s unique upbringing and overcoming childhood trauma
- Creating new neural pathways in the brain through DI’s
- Shani’s initial manifestation list and how it has evolved
- How increased self-worth leads to tangible manifestations
- Her unique method of soothing her Inner Child and Shadow
- The TBM workshops and DI’s that Shani uses daily
- Trusting your intuition, saying ‘no’, never settling!
- Translating jealousy into expansion
- Banishing negative narratives around dating and partnership
- Tips for those just beginning their TBM process!
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In The Episode:
- Expanded: The Process Episodes
- Unblocked Inner child
- Unblocked Shadow
- Subconscious Reintegration DI
- Trigger DI
- Prosperity DI
- Uplevel - Next Level
- Book Self-Publishing Company - Scribe Media
- Shani Linktree
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The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.
At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.
Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
– Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
– Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
– Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self
With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.
Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
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