How Do I Break Up Without Creating Pain?

i think you need to break up with her. You're already both in pain, right? And breaking up is not going to make those tiny cuts or breaking up is actually going to be a relief from those tiny cuts,. Like going to feel like a big stab in the heart, but it's actually you two removing your yourself from the situation so that you don't continue to hurt each other over and over and over again. Yes, absolutely. Ah, and yes, like that big, clean breake is going to hurt really bad, but it'm a clean brak, right? Like it's going to heal. It's going to be able to to do what it needs to