The Importance of Caring

I never doubted that my parents loved me I still don't doubt that and I never doubted that they wanted good things for me. Yet my reality Right was was so much neglect And in many different ways I knew sooner that it was Because of all these other pieces it took me a long time to know oh. It still has an impact on me the intent can be there and the impact can still be devastating Even if the intent is for good right? Caring the responsibility for the intent that I think has been a kind of this like orienting Question of like how do I how did I come to bear all the responsibility forthe relationship for for my for my own care and need any sense of