What Do You Consider Success?

i still have the internal narrative that's like, ah, well, you know, success is for people who who have a certain thing that i don't, and ye here i am, i guess. So, like, it feels weird that yu're complimenting me on what i don't consider that good. I mut kup, but i could have done better. Olmost feels disingenuous when somebody else says it, but it's like to know they really mean it. Even though there's clear evidence from other people therre telling you that you're doing amazing things. It's not that great. And so there's take, seeing success from the outside perspective of how people