Navigating Pregnancy and Proposals

Welcome back to ask uncut where we unpack your deep, dark and burning questions!
We missed you! We kind of missed each other 😂
We have some really big news coming on Wednesday morning so set your alarms for *checks notes* 5 am.

Vibes for the week:
Britt - Contour Cube 
Keeshia - Nala Strapless Padded Bra
Laura - App Hey You 

Then we get into your questions!

BF CHEATED ON BOYS TRIP
I have a no win situation- my partner cheated on me last year on an annual boys trip and we worked really hard to move on. He’s just started talking about where he will be going for this year's trip and I’m devastated!! I don’t want to tell him not to go because I don’t think that it’s right to tell someone what they can or can’t do, but I’m so disappointed that he’s choosing to still go after what happened last year. How do I deal with this?

MY BOYFRIEND WON’T STOP PLAYING WITH MY BREASTS
How do I ask my boyfriend to stop playing with my breasts when I'm trying to relax or trying to clean? He adores them, which is great, but they are very sensitive, especially before my period, and I occasionally get turned on when he does it. This is not so good when I'm trying to wash dishes, brush my teeth or literally just watch the tennis! I don't want him to think I don't like it but I’m not sure how to approach the topic around timing?

DO MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS DESERVE TO MEET MY BABY?
I’m currently 6 months pregnant with my first baby. It’s taken my partner and I over 5 years to fall pregnant so it’s a huge deal for us and we’re over the moon for this next chapter. I have, however, noticed that throughout my pregnancy there is a lack of people in both of our lives who seem to want to even be involved in this new chapter with us. I have various friends who have dropped off the radar since finding out I’m pregnant and who have not once checked in to see how I’m going. My partner also has family members who have also not messaged once to ask how we are after we announced or even ask how our pregnancy is going. Everyone seems to comment on how excited they are to meet the baby and have a nephew, grandchild, cousin etc. I’m feeling really upset. I’m of the mind that once our baby has arrived, these people who weren’t there for us during the pregnancy shouldn’t get an open invite to meet our child straight away, if at all…How would you look at approaching this with them and what would you do in this situation? 

DO I TELL HIM I KNOW HE’S GOING TO PROPOSE?
I've been with my partner for almost 4 years. We have always spoken about getting married and wanting kids and when we first started dating he told me he would propose within 2 years. Our anniversary is coming up next month and I'm pretty convinced he is going to propose on our anniversary because I've seen emails from the jeweller and texts to my mum about it on his phone. I haven't gone looking for information or taken his phone, it just always happens to be the case that these notifications come up when I'm sitting right next to him. I feel bad for knowing this information because I've always told him you'll never be able to truly surprise me because in another life I feel like I worked for the FBI. I want to be genuinely surprised when he does it but not sure that will be the case. Should I tell him that I know he’s going to propose?

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