It's Not All or Nothing

Start with the meat up organizer. Maybe try to have coffee with someone, like, broach the in person thing in a way that you feel comfortable with. And then go more and more thor as you get more and more comfortable going to meet ups,. meeting people, being a public face. I use a am, i used a name on this trip. And that's just sort of the line between privacy and convenienceie, i don't want to be so private. Trade off, balance. It's all a trade off.