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#105 Men’s Self-Worth Struggles and Stories (with Nick Perry)

Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

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Do You Know How to Perform a Poan Starf?

Rin: A lot of us have a anxiety and inhibition around experiencing pleasure first hand. We've got to externalize it and kind of live vicariously, like Betty marlan calls this vicarious pleasure. There's shame, anxiety and security around pleasure for some men. And i see some men saying, guys don't need pleasure right? It's like this very anti masculinity set-up. I think there's a lot of resistance and hesitation to explore pleasures because they're tussle round with their own mind. They're so afraid of being the centre of attention that they can't experience direct pleasure from another person. So if you're interested in learning how to perform a po

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