What Do You Want Him to Do to Meet Your Need for Love?

If you have a people educated in a domination structure, much of the definitions of what love means is all mixed up with domination. Now that trickles down into the rest of society, where you evenin in a marriagei each partner fears to be dominated by the other. For example, we often work with people who are having trouble marriages and we ask them first, what are your needs that are not getting met?