When you're reading a tree grows in brooklyn, or even a memoir, i mean, memoirs are my favourite genre. I love reading people's stories in their own words. And therefore, for you to beat yourself up for not remembering the ot or characters of a book, what it means is you had no real investment in that regard. That's not what i was trying to remember. So i think he's right that we don't always remember what we remember. But anyway, if i sat down on my computer and i lay my fingers on the keyboard, boom, i got it. There are mental illnesses associated with remembering too much,. You mean, talk about rumination