How to Find Ultimate Happiness with Rupert Spira
The Cathy Heller Podcast with Cathy Heller
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I'm Homesick, You Know What I Am Saying?
When we're seeking respector love or recognition from other people, what we're really seeking in them is what we can't find in ourselves. The only reason we demand it in the other is because we've lost touch with it in ourself. This has a profound effect on our relationships, be they intimate relationships, friends, colleagues. In doing so, we remove an impossible burden from our friend. Our friends can never produce peace or happiness or love for us, but if we expect them to do so, we are setting them up for failure. And sooner or later, we will feel that that person lets us down. No, they haven't let us down. We just projected an
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