Women don't know just to look at a man whether or not he falls into that category it's a kind of it's a mostly invisible thing and I think it's something that we just have to reckon with. The sexual revolution has brought us into a situation where women are to a far greater extent vulnerable to the kind of he said she said dynamic which may have felt like something that a woman would have wanted to go along with but then looks in the cold light of day much more exploitative. There is this huge gray area which is just incredibly difficult to negotiate especially if you're in a stranger's flat particularly if there's a power dynamic between you.

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