I think in some ways now, also, having raised a daughter, i probably now have more understanding of women than i certainly did when i was younger. It's so interesting just to think about how gender and gender rolls are so socially determinedd and parced out. And yet we're also at this time where so many, you know, especially young people, are saying, i'm just not playing that game. I won't take any of those. Is it difficult for the people that don't want to accept it? Well, it could be difficult in coming to terms with what you believe about who you are, but i haven't looked atit,. That's where the difficulty should