In 1967, your father takes a job in Poland. And he basically abandoned you guys to go if you know, it could be a number of things that he was having a little success in the Communist Party. Your mom is still being Catholic, being religious. So he felt like there's some some things going on that wasn't going to help his career. You say we moved, we moved to a little apartment across town, almost six miles from where we'd been living before at that age. In that place, that was a huge distance, especially because they had to walk or take the bus everywhere. Our beds were narrow and mattresses were thin, much like the walls to be able