You Can't Change the Outside Do?

If you want to really grow and evolve, you have to devote your life to your evolution. People think it means that you have to leave your job or leave your family or renounce things. It doesn't. You're going to the same place everyone else does. The difference is what you care about, and all that you care about is freeing yourself from yourself. There is nothing else. Your mind becomes ingrown and can't ever be happy.