In this introspective episode of the Men’s Therapy Podcast, the spotlight turns to its host, Marc Azoulay. He is a seasoned psychotherapist and group facilitator. He steps into the guest seat to explore a pattern many men know too well: being the "nice guy."

“I thought I was just being kind,” Marc shares. “But I was using niceness to avoid conflict and protect a fragile ego.” This candid admission opens the door to a deeper discussion. It focuses on the hidden motivations and emotional costs tied to being one of the so-called nice guys.

Marc reflects on how men often adopt this identity to earn approval or avoid rejection. “Nice guys tend to use self-sacrifice as a way to feel valuable,” he explains. “But underneath that is often low self-esteem and a deep need for emotional validation.”

This episode invites listeners into a raw and honest exploration of male identity. It highlights psychological manipulation and the often misunderstood traits associated with covert narcissism. Through his own story, Marc models how acknowledging these patterns can lead to healing and self-confidence.

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