When someone says I want to have all these things whatever their values are those values lived as far as time is concerned is a direct factor of how they are paid not how much. These are not judgments by the way it's just it is what it is today if I said by the way I fully believe in making money and meaning both need to be there if they don't have to be separate. If that same person's dream was actually to be fly fishing in Montana then that dream won't be lived until later when they could have at the same time possibly just moved Montana started fishing and made the same amount of money or more working from Montana either doing New York stuff or not. When you