Love Is a Solution of a Paradox

T sounds quite anti relativist. Then we move on to this idea that love, on his account, is going to be a solution of a paradox. And the paradox is that we have a radical disjunction between man and woman. But on the other hand, that there's only one humanity and one truth for human beings. So somehow, you know, this later very, very complicated account of love is an attempt to reconcile those two seemingly irreconcilable things.