The Depth of Engagement Theory

We both like intensity. We want to be fully there, paying full attention and really drop into the moment as much as possible. When are you deeply engaged in an experience, and when are you kind of half there, half thinking about what you have to do next? That's a shallow engagement in life. Once we drop into our feelings, then a whole world opens up as we can move our feelings. And that is what makes really fulfilling, intense sex. It's just that focus of attention. But it does need to be practised again and again. None of this ings, i think, that drew us together. We're all thinking about our 15 years and in that love