Learning to Make Meaning in the Context of Family

I have a high value for that adults apologize to children when they make mistakes And especially if those mistakes are in some way result in unintentional Hurt to the child. A lot of adults feel like you know that there's very very few circumstances under which they should apologize to children. For me it has to do with how I understand the developmental mind and what how children are Making meaning or learning to make meaning in the context of family. So If we are having experiences where Pain or harm is happening, then the adults around us are essentially gaslighting us Like making us think that Whatever that pain and harm is is actually love. This is just what it is Thenlike that confuses the ability to make