Are You Creating Separation When You Don't Have a Choice?

i postet on insto graham saying, like, what questions you have about separate an i got a bunch of responses. And as i've started talking more about separateness and desire in relationships, a lot of people have been kind of like, really? I can tell i've triggered some heartbreak for people who are like, how dare you speak about creating separateness when i don't have a choice? So if you're in a long distance relationship, the mechanism of separateness is built in for you. It feels like your its. Like lhike, you two are two separate viduals that happen to be in a relationship. Your identity is not based on